Valentine’s Day is round the corner. Obviously the air smells LOVE, LOVE and only LOVE. Previously, it was meant mainly for lovers. But, is that the only form by which love is expressed or personified?? I say NO. Love is an eternal feeling that any one can feel for any person – I mean one can love their parents, siblings and friends!! Love means to coexist amongst all and giving people their space making them comfortable. It also means respecting and caring for a person whom you think is adorable and worthy of your time. Giving a person your time accounts to giving him/her a part of your life that will never return back. It is only memories that remain at the end. Having said so, friends become a inseparable part of everyone’s life. It is one strong bond that makes you more approachable towards people, changes the outlook towards life and makes life a beautiful journey. I still cherish a Valentine’s day when we friends celebrated by ourselves and had fun!!
Ok, coming to love that arises between a man and woman – the one bond that can turn on to be serious when you are a matured person or infatuation in teens. I wish to stay away from infatuation because it disappears with time. After certain time we may laugh off at ourselves and the foolish things we would have done. If you are in love seriously and finally live together – its luck. If not, then also you are lucky. Because, love has touched you and you know what it feels like when you are caring for the person in subject more than yourself. It’s a feeling that has no bounds – gives joys, sorrows, frustrations and disappointments!! If you have failures, never mind. Its just a pass of time and there were experiences that will make you prepared for the times yet to come.
A reader may find this boring. These words have been drawn out from some instances that I’ve observed in general. Its not wrong to love, but be careful that it will not make you vulnerable to force some one out. If love really wants to nest with you, it will come back where ever it is! But if you force it, it gets worse. And, what can be more pleasurable than loving our friends, family and more than everything Ourselves!!! I wish a very happy Valentine’s Day to all the friends out here. Learn to love yourselves and nothing is more rewarding than this!! I wish to end this section with a quote – “It is better to have loved and lost than to never love at all – Samuel Butler”
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