First of all, a very happy new year 2010 (belated one :P) Hope your new year started on a good note :) I ushered the new year at Delhi with my dearest hubby. It was my first trip to delhi and I really enjoyed it.
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Monday, January 25, 2010
Friday, June 26, 2009
Incident unforgettable ...
Hi all,
Its been long since I visited my blog for updations and hence here I'm again to share one of the most important events that has changed my life around recently...
People, in general wait for that person in life who will sweep them off their feet and become their world. And I was not an exception there. I always used to feel that, if its an arranged marriage, you will start getting to know the person as time passes by. In a love marriage things would look quite different. You only don't realise the rapidity and swiftness of these events. But they become the most unforgettable and ever-living part of your lives. The ones which will bring a bright smile on your face. I am narrating one such incident that turned my life around in a jiffy.
It was Saturday, February 28, 2009. Life was just getting settled in Bangalore with the new job and I was still getting into the groove of it. New people, hustle and bustle of the city life, new environment. Dad and mom on the other hand were looking out for suitable alliances.I was least bothered and was just looking out to enjoy the new life that I'd got into. But destiny had some other plans. That morning, I got to know that dad had got an alliance and the photo of the boy had been sent. I just saw it as I got ready to office. Then I left home as usual and lo, got an unexpected call from dad. He said that, the boy's whose photo I just had a look, wants to meet me. I was getting restless, saying "please tell them to postpone". I really got nervous. Unfortunately, even my dress didn't suit the occasion.It was very casual. There was no reverting back too. I had a rather dividing feeling that this guy will say NO. But that given the probability was just 90% - what about the remaining 10%?
Having all these thoughts in mind, I reached office.I was greeted by my colleague(the one who is close to me)as usual. She saw me very panicky and asked me what was the matter! I narrated her the whole thing and she just started boosting my confidence saying things will go fine. She told me "Don't worry, just go and see the boy, who knows you may bump in"!! And as we were talking, lo I got a call from the boy himself. He said "Hello" and I was like nervous. The voice said "Is it Archana?" I said "Yeah". He said "I'm Anand. What will be the proper time to meet you?". I blurted "Any time!". Then we decided that we will meet some time at noon. His voice was still lingering in my mind and I was not able to concentrate - I was quite nervous about the meeting. An hour passed by and I had a meeting scheduled. So I'd to inform Anand and I called him. I didn't know it was his dad's number. We planned to meet by the evening. The more the time passed, the more I grew nervous and anxious too.I was also thinking about the conversation that was to happen...
It was around 4 PM that evening. Anand called me saying that they had reached my workplace. I told them to be at the lobby. As I reached the place, I started scanning the whole place since it was filled with lot many people. I saw a girl and a boy next to her turning his back. Suddenly as I approached them, the guy turned back. It was HIM. My heart skipped a beat. I tried to give my best smile to Anand and his family members as I approached them. He was accompanied by his sister and dad. His sister was smiling at me which was easing me out a bit. I said hello to everyone and led them out for a place to sit. We sat in the canteen and over coffee, I spoke to his dad and his sister - rather was nervous to look at him. After some time we were left all alone to talk.
We were strolling around the premises and were beginning our conversation. The conversation started with our work and education in general.I was still nervous to look at him and I knew consciously that he was gazing at me. But, some how something about this boy drew me closer. His mannerisms, his humorous way of putting things and of all, the clearness in his words was pulling me closer to him. Somewhere I knew I wanted to know more about him, his life, his likes and dislikes. His boyish charm, frank speech attracted me ever than I expected. Then he asked about what I expect from my life partner and vice versa. After roaming around for a few minutes, we were seated on a bench and continued our conversation. I knew that a decision was to be taken today and I was eager to know his decision.But I'd already made a decision that if this boy says YES, then it will be an YES from my side. But still decision was pending.
In the mean time, my brother was nearby and arrived at my workplace. He passed through us, but as I was engrossed in the talk with Anand, I really didn't see him. I'd a dilemma in my mind whether it will be a yes or no from his side. Suddenly he said "I'm ok with you becoming my spouse, what about you? No hurry, you can take your time.". I was speechless as this was unexpected for me.But I knew my answer if this was the answer. I told him "I'm ok, but I need to consult my parents on the same." My brother arrived on the scene and I introduced him to Anand. Then we all proceeded towards the place where his family was waiting. We conversed for some time and finally the time came to depart for the day. We exchanged our numbers towards the end.
Finally as they left, I knew my knight with the shining armor had arrived to take me away with him to a land which was to be different from what I was living presently. Life had to have some adverse changes and the time had come for it.I saw him for last time, with a smile and a gaze - my heart skipped a beat. As I left office that day, I knew this was a commitment and I heartily embraced it with smile on my face.
Our families met the very next day and confirmed the alliance. Anand and myself got engaged on the 19th of April and going to get married in August... And very much committed in our relationship :-)
Cheers!!!
Its been long since I visited my blog for updations and hence here I'm again to share one of the most important events that has changed my life around recently...
People, in general wait for that person in life who will sweep them off their feet and become their world. And I was not an exception there. I always used to feel that, if its an arranged marriage, you will start getting to know the person as time passes by. In a love marriage things would look quite different. You only don't realise the rapidity and swiftness of these events. But they become the most unforgettable and ever-living part of your lives. The ones which will bring a bright smile on your face. I am narrating one such incident that turned my life around in a jiffy.
It was Saturday, February 28, 2009. Life was just getting settled in Bangalore with the new job and I was still getting into the groove of it. New people, hustle and bustle of the city life, new environment. Dad and mom on the other hand were looking out for suitable alliances.I was least bothered and was just looking out to enjoy the new life that I'd got into. But destiny had some other plans. That morning, I got to know that dad had got an alliance and the photo of the boy had been sent. I just saw it as I got ready to office. Then I left home as usual and lo, got an unexpected call from dad. He said that, the boy's whose photo I just had a look, wants to meet me. I was getting restless, saying "please tell them to postpone". I really got nervous. Unfortunately, even my dress didn't suit the occasion.It was very casual. There was no reverting back too. I had a rather dividing feeling that this guy will say NO. But that given the probability was just 90% - what about the remaining 10%?
Having all these thoughts in mind, I reached office.I was greeted by my colleague(the one who is close to me)as usual. She saw me very panicky and asked me what was the matter! I narrated her the whole thing and she just started boosting my confidence saying things will go fine. She told me "Don't worry, just go and see the boy, who knows you may bump in"!! And as we were talking, lo I got a call from the boy himself. He said "Hello" and I was like nervous. The voice said "Is it Archana?" I said "Yeah". He said "I'm Anand. What will be the proper time to meet you?". I blurted "Any time!". Then we decided that we will meet some time at noon. His voice was still lingering in my mind and I was not able to concentrate - I was quite nervous about the meeting. An hour passed by and I had a meeting scheduled. So I'd to inform Anand and I called him. I didn't know it was his dad's number. We planned to meet by the evening. The more the time passed, the more I grew nervous and anxious too.I was also thinking about the conversation that was to happen...
It was around 4 PM that evening. Anand called me saying that they had reached my workplace. I told them to be at the lobby. As I reached the place, I started scanning the whole place since it was filled with lot many people. I saw a girl and a boy next to her turning his back. Suddenly as I approached them, the guy turned back. It was HIM. My heart skipped a beat. I tried to give my best smile to Anand and his family members as I approached them. He was accompanied by his sister and dad. His sister was smiling at me which was easing me out a bit. I said hello to everyone and led them out for a place to sit. We sat in the canteen and over coffee, I spoke to his dad and his sister - rather was nervous to look at him. After some time we were left all alone to talk.
We were strolling around the premises and were beginning our conversation. The conversation started with our work and education in general.I was still nervous to look at him and I knew consciously that he was gazing at me. But, some how something about this boy drew me closer. His mannerisms, his humorous way of putting things and of all, the clearness in his words was pulling me closer to him. Somewhere I knew I wanted to know more about him, his life, his likes and dislikes. His boyish charm, frank speech attracted me ever than I expected. Then he asked about what I expect from my life partner and vice versa. After roaming around for a few minutes, we were seated on a bench and continued our conversation. I knew that a decision was to be taken today and I was eager to know his decision.But I'd already made a decision that if this boy says YES, then it will be an YES from my side. But still decision was pending.
In the mean time, my brother was nearby and arrived at my workplace. He passed through us, but as I was engrossed in the talk with Anand, I really didn't see him. I'd a dilemma in my mind whether it will be a yes or no from his side. Suddenly he said "I'm ok with you becoming my spouse, what about you? No hurry, you can take your time.". I was speechless as this was unexpected for me.But I knew my answer if this was the answer. I told him "I'm ok, but I need to consult my parents on the same." My brother arrived on the scene and I introduced him to Anand. Then we all proceeded towards the place where his family was waiting. We conversed for some time and finally the time came to depart for the day. We exchanged our numbers towards the end.
Finally as they left, I knew my knight with the shining armor had arrived to take me away with him to a land which was to be different from what I was living presently. Life had to have some adverse changes and the time had come for it.I saw him for last time, with a smile and a gaze - my heart skipped a beat. As I left office that day, I knew this was a commitment and I heartily embraced it with smile on my face.
Our families met the very next day and confirmed the alliance. Anand and myself got engaged on the 19th of April and going to get married in August... And very much committed in our relationship :-)
Cheers!!!
Saturday, February 21, 2009
Life and my new job...
Well, long time after I visited my blog for updation. Life has taken a slight turnaround as I've landed up with a job in Bangalore. With a very short notice, I've shifted. I'm working for a reputed and still developing health systems company. I'm yet to get adjusted to the environment but have made a few friends - that is my colleagues. I have to commute around 10 kms to reach my office and have habituated myself to commute by city bus. Its fun because I used to travel when I was studying. Yes, I miss my family and friends the most.
If you ask what a software engineer is doing in a healthcare concern, all I would say is software development. There are teams for development, testing, support and technical support. I'm the only trainee around and I'm being put on training for most of the time. People here are quite professional and yes, there are people who crack jokes occassionally which makes the mood a bit lighter. What else should I say? Just getting into the groove of my job... More in the next post. Cheers...
Monday, November 24, 2008
Economic Crunch & what next??
Well, the economic crunch has put the whole world under pressure. Diplomats are running hither and thither to clean up the economic mess. Everywhere one can hear the words rate cut, liquidity, stock etc., But guess what, its getting worse. People are losing their jobs, livelihood and what not. The traders and stock brokers who have invested huge money in the markets have incurred huge losses and some are taking to suicide. One of the most powerful and prosperous country of this world, the USA is under a recession. Japan was the next to follow. People working in various sectors have lost their jobs in the name of lay-off's. In such a situation, what will people do for livelihood? Every year, scores and scores of graduates are passing out of college - what is their fate? I saw in a news channel some pathetic scenes faced by people due to recession. People have taken to begging on the streets with their families.
Coming to the scenario in India, our government is taking every step to motivate growth in all sectors. But the outsourcing part is a cause of concern. Most of our business is dependent on the US and they are dependent on us. Its Interdependency basically. I feel strongly that, this interdependency cannot be weakened due to lack of skilled labor in the IT, ITES industry. Even, Indians are feeling the pinch in their finances. I heard some people telling that they fear of lay-off's in their company and are well aware that economic crisis is taking a toll.
Only time can tell when all these problems get solved... Hope they get solved soon and we make way for a bigger growth and employment in all sectors - atleast amongst ourselves...
Coming to the scenario in India, our government is taking every step to motivate growth in all sectors. But the outsourcing part is a cause of concern. Most of our business is dependent on the US and they are dependent on us. Its Interdependency basically. I feel strongly that, this interdependency cannot be weakened due to lack of skilled labor in the IT, ITES industry. Even, Indians are feeling the pinch in their finances. I heard some people telling that they fear of lay-off's in their company and are well aware that economic crisis is taking a toll.
Only time can tell when all these problems get solved... Hope they get solved soon and we make way for a bigger growth and employment in all sectors - atleast amongst ourselves...
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Sweating it out!
Exercise literally means doing some physical activity to keep oneself fit and strong. But, the way of exercise differs from person to person. Let me share some info that I recently read - which I thought clears the bad perceptions about fitness. Some people are blessed with physique that never puts on weight - eat what ever. Some people have an overweight kind of body structure and the rest Obese. But how do we actually define a proper fitness regimen for a person?
Its a known fact that a person tends to put on weight due to the unused calories that accumulates in the body. Putting on weight is easier - but reducing it is an uphill task. For men, the fat accumulates in the belly area and for women hips and thighs. If people have a broader frame and tend to put on weight, it seems obese. I've seen people who are obese than one would expect. They have various health problems that are caused due to obesity. For example - hypertension, some deficiencies, hormonal imbalance. Obese people even have difficulty in walking and carrying their own weight.
Fitness experts always point out that stressful lifestyles contribute towards obesity and a host of other problems. Stressful work, over-eating or under-eating, lack of movement, tension and pressure are all causes for concern. How do we battle the weight-gain then? Is it by becoming anorexic? Is it by just exercising for a period of time and coming back to routine? Is it by the use of some weight-reduction machines, pills etc.,?
The simple answer is "Proper Lifestyle". By this I mean, proper diet, a small exercise regimen and of course - a positive frame of mind. One of my uncles, who's a doctor, advised me that we must eat until we feel full. We must include all essential nutrients like Proteins, carbohydrates, Sugar and even fat (in a small quantity instead of avoiding totally). We have to make sure that our calorie intake is proportional to the work we do. Suppose, if you have had a bar of chocolate, make sure you have worked out or burnt all those calories. Or if you just have had some homemade sweets, make sure you have it within a limit. In simple words, make sure you've burnt out those extra calories.
Next step would be to Exercise. It is better to exercise atleast 15 minutes a day. Exercise may mean practicing Yoga or any other form that will keep you in shape. It is also good to walk for half an hour every day atleast for 3 days a week. If not on weekdays, try to make up on weekends. And above all, we need a positive frame of mind that will help us get rid of unwanted tensions and help us in reducing weight - if we are overweight.
Having given such an info, I feel its ok to bump into a feast of chocolates, pizzas, burgers and other tempting foods occassionaly ;)
So just get out for a positive and healthier lifestyle!
More in the next post! Cheers! :)
Its a known fact that a person tends to put on weight due to the unused calories that accumulates in the body. Putting on weight is easier - but reducing it is an uphill task. For men, the fat accumulates in the belly area and for women hips and thighs. If people have a broader frame and tend to put on weight, it seems obese. I've seen people who are obese than one would expect. They have various health problems that are caused due to obesity. For example - hypertension, some deficiencies, hormonal imbalance. Obese people even have difficulty in walking and carrying their own weight.
Fitness experts always point out that stressful lifestyles contribute towards obesity and a host of other problems. Stressful work, over-eating or under-eating, lack of movement, tension and pressure are all causes for concern. How do we battle the weight-gain then? Is it by becoming anorexic? Is it by just exercising for a period of time and coming back to routine? Is it by the use of some weight-reduction machines, pills etc.,?
The simple answer is "Proper Lifestyle". By this I mean, proper diet, a small exercise regimen and of course - a positive frame of mind. One of my uncles, who's a doctor, advised me that we must eat until we feel full. We must include all essential nutrients like Proteins, carbohydrates, Sugar and even fat (in a small quantity instead of avoiding totally). We have to make sure that our calorie intake is proportional to the work we do. Suppose, if you have had a bar of chocolate, make sure you have worked out or burnt all those calories. Or if you just have had some homemade sweets, make sure you have it within a limit. In simple words, make sure you've burnt out those extra calories.
Next step would be to Exercise. It is better to exercise atleast 15 minutes a day. Exercise may mean practicing Yoga or any other form that will keep you in shape. It is also good to walk for half an hour every day atleast for 3 days a week. If not on weekdays, try to make up on weekends. And above all, we need a positive frame of mind that will help us get rid of unwanted tensions and help us in reducing weight - if we are overweight.
Having given such an info, I feel its ok to bump into a feast of chocolates, pizzas, burgers and other tempting foods occassionaly ;)
So just get out for a positive and healthier lifestyle!
More in the next post! Cheers! :)
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Happy Independence Day!
Its our 61st Independence day. What a day to rejoice – the day when our country was freed from the clutches of the British rule. Well, a huge struggle to get freedom is commendable! But, our country faces more problems even to this day. Inflation, strikes, agitations, corruption and what not! These problems seem to have no end.
In the sports end, India lost to Sri Lanka the test series and looking forward to the ODI series! Next comes the superb Olympic gold by Abhinav Bindra! That is a sort of the gift the nation and its people for the independence day. Wow! And what’s more. India will play football for the first time in the Asia cup after 1984. Isn’t it an indication that true talent always shines when it has the total dedication of the related people!
Inflation seems to be a never ending woe. It’s soaring to heights where it’s getting difficult to tame it. And the J & K unrest is still continuing! This forms a black mark on the face of the I-day celebrations! We’ve some serious issues to be tackled!
On this occasion, let’s hope that our country soon gets out of these huge problems and go on the path of growth and development. I wish all my fellow countrymen a very happy INDEPENDENCE DAY. JAI HIND & PROUD TO BE AN INDIAN ALWAYS! :)
In the sports end, India lost to Sri Lanka the test series and looking forward to the ODI series! Next comes the superb Olympic gold by Abhinav Bindra! That is a sort of the gift the nation and its people for the independence day. Wow! And what’s more. India will play football for the first time in the Asia cup after 1984. Isn’t it an indication that true talent always shines when it has the total dedication of the related people!
Inflation seems to be a never ending woe. It’s soaring to heights where it’s getting difficult to tame it. And the J & K unrest is still continuing! This forms a black mark on the face of the I-day celebrations! We’ve some serious issues to be tackled!
On this occasion, let’s hope that our country soon gets out of these huge problems and go on the path of growth and development. I wish all my fellow countrymen a very happy INDEPENDENCE DAY. JAI HIND & PROUD TO BE AN INDIAN ALWAYS! :)
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
A New Star...
I was watching TV the other day and came across the promos of the movie LOVE STORY 2050. First of all, i was not even aware that the hero -was Harman Baweja. I saw the song where he was dancing and Priyanka with her hair dyed red. I was wondering why Hrithik has lost weight and the muscles. Seriously, I mistook Harman Baweja for Hrithik Roshan. Clearly, Harman has got some of Hrithik's looks! But not totally!! :P
This bought back the memories of my school days. I was in high school then and Hrithik Roshan made his debut with Kaho Na Pyaar Hai. Like any other teenager, even I was mad about Hrithik Roshan, his looks, dancing. I was desperate to watch the movie. And in those days, Hindi movies used to be in theatres here after 10-15 days of the actual release! I'd to persuade my dad to take me to the theatre to watch the movie. And the songs were also excellent - in the lips of each one who had all those silly crushes and puppy loves! Lol! I specially loved the song Kyun Chalti hai Pavan.. and till today its one of my favorites! I purchased nearly three copies of the album and also a huge poster of Hrithik!
Now one may wonder why i wrote this! Actually, the nostalgic moments that i sensed prompted me to pen down my thoughts here! Harman will hopefully be the Hrithik of the present teen generation!
More in the next post... :)
This bought back the memories of my school days. I was in high school then and Hrithik Roshan made his debut with Kaho Na Pyaar Hai. Like any other teenager, even I was mad about Hrithik Roshan, his looks, dancing. I was desperate to watch the movie. And in those days, Hindi movies used to be in theatres here after 10-15 days of the actual release! I'd to persuade my dad to take me to the theatre to watch the movie. And the songs were also excellent - in the lips of each one who had all those silly crushes and puppy loves! Lol! I specially loved the song Kyun Chalti hai Pavan.. and till today its one of my favorites! I purchased nearly three copies of the album and also a huge poster of Hrithik!
Now one may wonder why i wrote this! Actually, the nostalgic moments that i sensed prompted me to pen down my thoughts here! Harman will hopefully be the Hrithik of the present teen generation!
More in the next post... :)
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